How it works
A calm, respectful path to marriage
Four simple steps, with you and your family in control at every stage.
The four steps
- 1
Create a profile
Sign up and create a profile for yourself, or for a son, daughter, sibling or relative. The profile clearly shows who manages it. - 2
Set preferences and visibility
Describe the life partner you hope to find, then decide which details and photos are shown, and to whom. - 3
Suggested matches and interests
You receive suggested matches based on your preferences. If someone seems suitable, send a respectful interest. - 4
Talk safely
When both sides accept, you can talk in the app. Contact details are shared only when you both agree.
Profiles managed by family
Run by a parent, sibling or guardian
Families often lead the search. A parent, sibling or guardian can create and manage a profile on behalf of the person it is for, who must be 18 or over.
Always clear who is speaking
Each profile shows who manages it, for example "Managed by mother", so the other family knows who they are talking to.
Interests, not likes
There is no swiping here. An interest is a considered, polite request to begin a conversation.
Send an interest
When a suggested match seems suitable, send an interest. The other side can accept or decline with no pressure.
Both must accept
Conversation only opens when both sides accept. Until then, no messages can be exchanged.
Photo privacy options
Photos are modest by default. You choose one of these settings for your photos.
Blurred for everyone
Your photos are always blurred.
Accepted matches
Visible only to people whose interest you have accepted.
Members
Visible to signed-in, verified members.
On request
Members ask to see your photos, and you decide each time.
Guardian (wali) access
A member can invite a wali or guardian to read their conversations. This keeps communication transparent and in line with family and religious expectations. The member chooses whether to invite a wali, and the other side can see that a wali is present.
Begin with a free account
Free to join. Create a profile for yourself or a family member, and decide exactly what others can see.